I was thinking about intelligence quotients because I was trying to decide how much I have really been learning, recently. There are things that I do that are good for me, and there are areas where I feel like I am a complete slacker. Some areas I work on some of the time, and conveniently forget at other times. These don't all relate to knowledge per se, but they happen to be in areas that I think are important. How do I treat people? Am I better at seeing their point of view than I was a year ago? Do I give more service? Am I actively learning, or am I just coasting along now that school is over? My worry was, even though I might have been smart enough to graduate from college, am I doing anything about that now? Am I interested in academics, or do I just dabble? This also applies to my physical health--am I helping myself along?
I was looking on the internet and I stumbled across this article: http://wilderdom.com/intelligence/WhyIntelligentPeopleFail.html. The title is "Why Intelligent People Fail." The reasons listed are as follows:
- lack of motivation
- lack of impulse control
- lack of perseverance
- fear of failure
- procrastination
- inability to delay gratification
- too little/too much self-confidence
Having said that, I still will pat myself on the back for accomplishing a major life goal this year--playing a concerto with a symphony was always something that I have dreamed of doing. I was grateful to have the opportunity to do that this June.
2 comments:
Good job! That's so cool that you were able to do something like that. I need to make some new goals for myself. I think of some then never really do much to get them far off the ground. I don't like feeling stagnant. Thanks for a kick in the rear.
Wow, Becca! I always find your blog posts so interesting...which is why I mean to share them with people... Do you mind? :)
And I agree with the last commenter: thanks for the kick in the rear! :)
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